Have you ever bet in a lottery issuing a large value of money just because you have these feelings of certain fortune and luck? Or, you’ve been always addressing, uttering a “Good luck” whenever in a challenge? Do you believe in omens implying those unexplained ‘bad luck’? For instance, a black cat passing the street is a sign of unlucky day among those people who believe in luck. If you answered yes in any of these questions then you might also want to know the dark sides behind it!
Luck is defined as the “success or failure apparently brought by chances rather than through ones action”. If I were to be successful in the near future, I would not like it to be called as the result of my ‘lucky days’ because apparently, the real meaning of being lucky is not associated with the part of actually being hard-worker and passionate on something, somehow. On the other hands, ‘bad luck’ corresponds to the mere fact that a certain situation aren’t made to be real but made to have the possibilities and chances which only the gamblers like to be included. That’s why I stopped mentioning about me being lucky or unlucky as in the first place, I made things personally and individually. No matter how I failed and triumph it still doesn’t matter winning and losing as long as I did it actually rather than by chances lucky or unlucky.
Joining a gambling activity is a mater of chances which definitely set asides ones hard work. No one is enough to have the hundred percent of winning unless these people are cheating. So, winning in a lottery could be the sign of perfect guess rather than having a good luck.
Here are my commonly found mistakes:
- “Good Luck”
It’s better if you say a “Do your best” tag rather than giving a good luck when it only meant a “good chances”. If we were to think it more deeply, telling a “goodluck” is like saying ‘anything best you might do is just a waste regarding of your goodluck in the end’ or ‘anything worst you did also are wasted regarding of being unlucky”. It explains that giving goodluck aren’t mean to support this certain people but to wish only for their good chances.
2. “I am unlucky in …”
This phrase id usually heard from the people who always act and think negatively. They put themselves in a situation that they think they might end up being a failure rather than actually putting themselves in action. Or, they always tend to insist a situation being unfair to them. If we were to think a second reflection about the phrase itself, it was just an assumed/guess for a situation might change reversely if an individual truly act inversely the way he/she might do.
As an example, “I am unlucky in winning sports competitions”, if that’s the case you don’t mean to have the lack of skills when joining competitions instead you apparently mean that you ain’t have the fortune winning sports competition. On the other hand, being unlucky/lucky do not really exist for a certain individual could be successful/failure through their real capacity of being in either. They might be successful if they have the positive mind into being one which definitely change the mood of game allied to them. Thus, they may be a failure if continually lose the focus since they always think of being unfortunate to a loser.
Note # 2:
Believing in good luck are dangerous and unkind, it is actually a falsehood that may lead an individual into a wrong direction.
Things to Remember:
A. Avoid or stop mentioning everything about fortune and luck
Always uttering everything about being fortunate might get worst and be a bad mannerism. In order to prevent the belief in luck, practice yourself in every little things. Start it with your preferences and beliefs, then change your way of speaking and actions surely things might get large and then your view on it will completely change.
B. Always do your best in everything
Making the best out of yourself is associated with hard work and passion. If you always make your very best, then there’s nothing to be worried about being the winner or loser as long as you’re simply expressing yourself.
C. Think positively
Everything you might do is nothing if you did not turn it into action because of thinking negatively. Expressing some kind of luck aren’t the signs of being positive hence a negative thinking that chances are present rather than the actual action.
D. Lastly, share this to other people
Sharing is caring. If you do know somebody who have his kind of manner, better if you share his to them. You can give them advises and explain everything.
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